Cancer

Cancer is any malignant growth or tumor, which is caused by abnormal and uncontrolled cell division.  It may spread to other parts of the body through the lymphatic system or via the blood stream.  Many types of cancer are curable, if caught early.  Treatment varies depending on the type and classification of cancer an individual has.

People diagnosed with the disease make the choice as to whether or not to undergo treatment.  Some choose to let the disease run its course, without medical intervention to prolong life, whereas others will opt for any and all types of treatment available.  It is an individual decision and the inflicted person needs to be supported in whichever option he/she chooses.

How Family & Friends Should Interact With Clients Who Are Battling Cancer

• Be yourself and don’t worry about whether things are being done right or wrong.
• Be a good listener i.e. hear what the client is saying.
• Let the client take the lead in conversations.
• It is not necessary that interactions always involve conversation.  Silence is okay as it allows clients to collect their thoughts.
• Try to maintain eye contact with the client.
• Be careful what emotions and body language you project to avoid upsetting the client.
• Clients are not seeking advice, so don’t offer any.
• Don’t say you know how the client feels when you really haven’t experienced what he/she is going through.
• Don’t visit with the client if you lack control over your own emotions.
• Bring some levity to the conversation.  i.e.  Talk about humorous things and other topics.  Don’t dwell on the cancer, unless this is what the client wants to talk about.
• Try to involve clients in as many activities as they would like to become involved in.  Don’t be a human shield for the client.
• Empathy and concern are the best “gifts” you can give to clients.